What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a caring touch complete of attention and existence, without a basic kind and predetermined result. Tantra massage is given from the heart. In a tantric massage, the whole body takes part and erotic zones can likewise be touched. Obviously, constantly with regard for (mutual) borders. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy also gets attention. A tantra massage occurs on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection in between massage giver and receiver. Mentally, physically, at heart level and in some cases even at the depths of body and soul. The function of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the direction of) a natural, thrilled state of being. The result is often a fantastic physical, psychological wellness. Generally, the receiver is very relaxed, incredibly flowing and ending up well in the heart, and in higher spheres.
Tantric Massage is all about Caring touch
Tantra massage is provided from the heart. The majority of touch will take place through the hands (or body to body) it is really like that touches. The recipient is also present, and gets active and likewise feels (ultimately) from the heart.
Filled with attention and presence throughout tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch complete of attention and existence. Don't look around or being hectic with something else, no, your full attention is on offering or receiving the massage. Tantra massage is not about regular, fixed patterns are in fact out of the question.
A tantric massage isn't really about an established outcome
A tantric massage will constantly be different. You never ever know how it will end up. It is not the method or the wanted sequence of rubbing that is very important, it's about what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most need at the minute? What benefits her/him? Love understands what to do, enjoy constantly has a suitable reaction. Therefore the massage will be exactly that exactly what is needed. Adequate is that the provider is present and keeps tuning into his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine likewise has its own plan, you can't "do" it.
Tantric massages therefore frequently take a really surprising course. Everything fits into a bigger whole. For example, a tantric massage does not always have to be "great", ending in bliss. A "stopped working" massage can be the primary step in an excellent development.
How to get the best from your tantric massage
Constantly with regard to limits
We knew it for a long time, of course, however since the #MeToo revelations, some things have actually come up in the world of tantra massage. Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage.
Set clear limits ahead of time
It is a misconception that a tantric massage need to always be naked, rubbish. With clothing on is likewise totally ok (though hard to work with oil then). Personally, we have given/received many tantric massages only on the head.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let flow freely
Triggering and releasing the flow of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the whole body participates and erotic zones can likewise be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of fundamental/ sexual/ emotional/ passionate/ love/ production/ user-friendly energy.
Focused on the natural overjoyed state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage belongs to "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is an extremely useful, body-oriented movement, a vision of life targeted at growing in love and consciousness. In a split 2nd you can end up being enlightened (by 1000% surrender), however normally, that is a procedure in time. Tantra knows various techniques to use on the journey to enlightenment. As far as we are worried, tantra massage is one of them. Tantra has no function aside from self-realization: bring back the natural (ecstatic) state of being.
Generally resulting in a terrific physical, mental well-being
Tantra assists you to become more relaxed, more vibrant, more energetic, more loving therefore much more. Really, you "discover" to enjoy yourself, your body, your (sexual) energy and life itself. This is also the case with a tantra massage. Because this is precisely what takes place often: the recipient is enjoying it! Enjoying is totally permitted! A tantra massage is generally great, sometimes tasty. We, therefore, invite you to totally take pleasure in receiving ánd providing a tantric massage. Feel, utilize your senses. Hear, odor, taste, feel and reveal that you like it. Let your body speak!
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are numerous types of massage. Of course, all massages have certain practices and methods in typical. Yet there is a huge difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (targeted at relaxation).
* Sports massage (focused on the muscles).
* Sexual massage (focused on pleasure fulfillment).
* (Body) therapy (aimed at recovery).
Relaxation is a fundamental part of tantric massage, but of an entirely different order than relaxation massage Why? Well due to the fact that you are really very energetic during/after the massage. You do not fall asleep (unless you are extremely tired), you are extremely alert and conscious! A tantra massage is NOT an erotic massage either. If it gets stuck in sexual research or sexual fulfillment, we would call it different. Tantra massage is definitely not a treatment! It's a type of style nowadays to see tantra massage as a therapy, but treatment is an occupation apart. Tantra massage definitely has recovery impacts, but that is not an end in itself.
The essentials of tantric massage.
For a detailed description, see the article on the essentials of tantric massage. In summary, the following essentials stand out:
Tantra massage suggestions-- prior to you begin
* Develop a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Provide good conditions (physically, but likewise mentally).
* Make clear contracts!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage pointers-- throughout the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Make sure your massage is demand free, don't press or force anything.
* Open your own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and distribute it throughout the whole body.
* Don't only use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Occasionally ... do nothing at all! Be 1000% present. Delight in!
* Utilize your senses.
* Give feedback (pleasure noises?).
* Construct in combination (rest) minutes.
Need totally free.
Some masseurs are more/mainly worried about exactly what they themselves discover enjoyable, fun, desirable. Though a tantra massage is not a work job, so as a giver you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. So forget your very own "requirements", keep away from your own problems and above all ... do not aim to require anything. Nothing needs to be done, nothing is required! Again, don't aim to enforce anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to what the recipient needs. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Trust in love. Perhaps you are dissatisfied when someone goes to sleep. You may not be waiting for a psychological cry, however a tantric massage has no goal. No intended outcome. It is what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage pointers-- after the massage.
* Take sufficient time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Take time to exchange your experiences.
* Realize that a tantric massage can have an impact for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not right away go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 essential tantra massage tips (insights/rules).
* Do not work towards an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a delighted ending massage? Yes it can be, it typically is but there is no pressure for you to carry out, this is about letting that energy circulation.
* Regard limits, set clear borders ahead of time. Our masseuses are primarily extremely open minded - they are naturally due to this company the fact that of the nature of their work but they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the wishes of the recipient in mind, naturally. Know that it can turn out differently.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Energize the entire body. Being excited is regular and desirable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are essential! A lot can come up.
* Be alert to restored freezing minutes. Prevent limits from being crossed again.
* Action by action becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Beware: no sex! Practice makes perfect. Enjoying the renewed balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Offer feedback (e.g. pleasure sounds) and supply integration moments (just not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual complete satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage take place?
Do not release, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we mean do not hurry to the climatic ending, hold it, be in the moment, let that sexual energy build and flood your whole body.
Possible effects of tantric massage.
Gives peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. During/after the massage it becomes peaceful in your head (sometimes entirely empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of wonderfully flowing life energy. Your body armor ends up being softer, thinner or perhaps vanishes. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a possible healing result. It is possible that obstructions, psychological injuries pertain to the surface. There may be a psychological release, consisting of physical reactions such as shaking, crying, shocks. Even though tantra massage is not the like healing, this release may recover some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You become more loving, you discover exactly what it is like to like yourself.
Is taking pleasure in.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The mix of relaxation and a lot of energy suggests that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies. With the love change, you may end up being not only happy but even euphoric. A delighted state of being is possible. The more you give up, the better you will feel.
In brief, tantric massage is ...
* A loving touch.
* Filled with attention and existence.
* The entire body gets involved.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without basic form, without predefined outcome.
* With respect to (mutual) borders.
* Establishes a (heart) connection in between the giver and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, ecstatic state of being of the recipient.
* Normally resulting in a fantastic physical, psychological well-being (of both).